Tragically, too many victims of spousal abuse take this line, Rubyretro
I think it has been pointed out that there is no evidence that Mary was
ever beaten by Joe. I agree that the conditions in which the couple lived are ones which often lead to domestic violence -but certainly not the complete
butchery which Mary was subjected to.
Hardly reasonable since he had met her as one of her customers and shacked up with her in an attempt to keep her all to himself. Joseph Barnett knew what Mary Kelly was from the beginning and his expectation that he could possess her and that she would give-up her livelihood for an unemployed broke laborer was far from realistic
It probably wasn't a realistic expectation, but people usually go into
relationships with optimism and hopes for the future. Mutual promises are made. I must say that it is terribly belittling of Mary and Joe's relationship to
write "shacked up" in a very patronizing way. Why wouldn't they be capable of 'finer feelings' like anyone else ? Because they lived a long time ago, were very poor, and members of the lowest classes ?
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