Originally posted by curious
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Given this (and it is still a problem today as my own mother can attest to) his mother simply would not have been accepted by the community. Certainly not any more than any other christian who lived and worked in the area. His family likely would have been appalled, and likely would have pretended very hard that she did not exist. The thing is, no shame would be attributed to her. She would not be blamed, or shunned, gossiped about, or castigated. She simply would have been another non-Jew in a predominately Jewish community. She would not have been welcomed into the fold. Jacob Levy would have been simply another non-Jewish boy. There were plenty in the neighborhood, and it wouldn't affect his ability to make friends, or play. But he would not have been included in any religious activities or holidays. He would not have attended synagogue, he would not be bar mitzvahed. He would not marry in a synagogue, and likely would not marry a Jewish girl.
His father on the other hand would have been open to quite a bit of gossip, ridicule, and even a certain horror. What was so wrong with him no Jewish girl would have him? How could he be so selfish as to marry a shiksa? How could he shame his family like that? Etc. It's a bit of a dichotomy. There is no shame in being a Christian, but there is some attached to marrying one.
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