Hi All,
Look, if a grown man can work up this much resentment against a total stranger, or can just feel somehow entitled to exercise his power over life and death, what kind of Godawful behaviour would we expect him to have tried on as a kid?
People talk as if the poor man must have been saddled with a terrible ma or pa when he was but a sweet and innocent lad, to turn out that rotten. But isn't it just a tad more likely to be the other way round, and the mother of this rotten to the core adult had found herself saddled with an exceptionally wilful, selfish and difficult child? One who resented and resisted all attempts to get him to do, or stop doing, anything against his will? One who blamed his parents and teachers for always picking on him and treating him unfairly, while leaving his siblings and classmates alone, when the reality was that it was his unacceptable behaviour and refusal to co-operate with anyone that got him more negative attention than his peers?
Easy to see how the boy, once grown, could have an awful lot of lessons to teach those now weaker than himself, to make up for all the years when mother and co were struggling to impose any boundaries at all on his behaviour.
Love,
Caz
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Look, if a grown man can work up this much resentment against a total stranger, or can just feel somehow entitled to exercise his power over life and death, what kind of Godawful behaviour would we expect him to have tried on as a kid?
People talk as if the poor man must have been saddled with a terrible ma or pa when he was but a sweet and innocent lad, to turn out that rotten. But isn't it just a tad more likely to be the other way round, and the mother of this rotten to the core adult had found herself saddled with an exceptionally wilful, selfish and difficult child? One who resented and resisted all attempts to get him to do, or stop doing, anything against his will? One who blamed his parents and teachers for always picking on him and treating him unfairly, while leaving his siblings and classmates alone, when the reality was that it was his unacceptable behaviour and refusal to co-operate with anyone that got him more negative attention than his peers?
Easy to see how the boy, once grown, could have an awful lot of lessons to teach those now weaker than himself, to make up for all the years when mother and co were struggling to impose any boundaries at all on his behaviour.
Love,
Caz
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