I will say that I am repulsed by servers with an eyebrow ring. Not because of the piercing per se, but because most people with brow rings walk around with the piercing in some stage of infection or another. Makes me gag.
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...actually, Ally you are wrong. Being naked and dirty violates medical health codes, public health sanitation codes, and medical regulations (Federal and State) surrounding all medical and food-related workers in the United States....with the exception of the naked servers at your local "Dangle Bar and Grill" type of place who still theoretically have to be clean...I don't quite know how they get around that...except they are serving the food rather than cooking it, I guess...
A surgeon refusing to do a proper "wash-up" before and after doing a surgical procedure would be fired, for example.Cheers,
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What are codes but more rules slapped on people to keep them from exploring the beauty of one's natural state. Codes of any sort are oppressive restrictive and idiotic! And as long as a surgeon washes his or her hands, their armpits can be as foul as they want them.
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Originally posted by Ally View PostWho cares if you offend people? If you believe it's your god given right to smell and be naked, then shouldn't you have the right? Clothes and deodorant are just as much of add ons as make up and jewelry. There is absolutely no difference between them.
That's your opinion. Your personal opinion. Some people think women without make-up is not attractive, and that's their personal opinion.
And if that is the personal opinion of the person running they store, they have the right to insist that their employees present themselves attractively--by their definition, not yours.
Doesn't make it wrong either.babybird
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Originally posted by Ally View PostWhat are codes but more rules slapped on people to keep them from exploring the beauty of one's natural state. Codes of any sort are oppressive restrictive and idiotic! And as long as a surgeon washes his or her hands, their armpits can be as foul as they want them.
HUh? Now I am really confused.
So you support the ' oppressive and idiotic' codes and rules of employers who wish to STOP women having their faces in their 'natural state' because they're allowed to prevent their workers from 'exploring the beauty' of their natural state, yet you are against laws which protect other people from having other people's nakedness and stink thrust at them because those rules are oppressive?
LOL!
I think you need to rethink that through a little bit Ally.Last edited by babybird67; 07-10-2011, 12:59 PM.babybird
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Originally posted by babybird67 View PostWearing make-up also does not make one more hygienic than not, so there is a difference.
Clothes are necessary so you don't break the law, make-up is not.
I am little surprised you find it difficult to see the distinction between those things.
I think you need to rethink that through a little bit Ally.
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Of course employers can be female too. I didn't suggest otherwise.
Sexism goes with racism and homophobia. I'm so sorry if you don't see it that way. And I assume you meant "puerile". Careful with those big words now.
No, I think the choice is the same. When I see pantsuits on the rack at the store, they don't have a big sign over them that says "Professional only on women who earn 175K a year". Professional attire is professional attire.
Actually I had assumed that rule was either made by or enforced by a woman. I don't have an image of some leering male boss. I'm not even saying that makeup is inappropriate to the venue. I'm saying that having different requirements for male employees and female employees is an inequality. For both males and females.
What you don't seem to understand is that this woman did NOT agree to Harrod's makeup code. She worked for a subcontractor who did not have that rule. She worked for them for four years. This woman was told to adhere to a rule that was not a condition of her employment, or be fired. So they were not trying to force her to adhere to her employment contract, they were trying to force her to do something that was not a condition of her employment. And she refused. And it doesn't matter how appropriate the request might be, if it isn't a condition of employment, then you can't threaten to fire someone for not doing it.
Not to mention it's kind of offensive for someone to tell you that you need to wear makeup when you aren't required to. I mean, someone comes up and says that to me they get an automatic "go to hell".
Having seen a photo of the young lady in question she looks perfectly presentable to me.......but I have not and never will shop in harrods so I'm not sure my opinion really matters.Last edited by DirectorDave; 07-10-2011, 02:34 PM.
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Originally posted by Ally View PostWearing deodorant doesn't make you more hygienic either, it just makes you smell better. In short, it's an enhancement just like makeup.
Ah I got it. So the government that you pay to provide can make up rules "the law" that you believe we are obligated to follow, but companies who pay their own employees are not allowed to make up their own rules that you are obligated to follow.
Interesting take on how you view where restrictions are fair.
In my view, employers can have rules about what their employees wear and how they behave at work. These should be based on fair and rational principles and what does or does not prevent the employees doing their job. Thus, they can make a rule that employees should be clothed, for health and safety and decency reasons. That makes sense to me.
Similarly asking people to wash (not use deoderant which I didn't mention but just to make that clear for you) makes sense again for health and safety in the workplace and because nobody likes sitting next to people who smell...it would have an effect on work.
Somebody not wearing make up has zero effect in these ways. A person can do their job with or without make up on. There is no rational or fair reason for an employer to force an employee to wear make up.
Rules should always be about what is fair and rational. If you follow your logic through to its conclusion you will have to support employers not employing people on the basis of race or gender if you truly believe if somebody pays you for doing a job they get the right to choose exactly who does it and how it is done. There is legislation to enforce employers not to impose arbitrary and unreasonable choices on their workforce (no blacks, no women). To my way of thinking, and this is purely my opinion as always, the wearing of make up is an arbitrary choice on the part of the employer with no rational basis behind it. He (generic) is imposing his arbitrary preferences not only on his workforce but on his customers, maybe half of which disagree with his choices.
That's not fair or logical to me. And that's why I see a huge difference between clothing/washing and accessorising.
On what rational basis does the government get to determine that I am required to spend money on clothes? Where is the rationale? It's not improving on my natural state.
There's no logical basis for clothing,
Neither one is necessary.
I am a little surprised you don't get the distinction that "in my house, I make the rules".
And the Government have been chosen to be the Houseowner for the duration of their term of Government, so they have the right to make the laws for the 'house' we live in during that time, and we get the choice to fire them if they start doing things we disagree with. The difference seems to be they don't make arbitrary ones so much as employers do.
And I think you need to learn to recognize sarcasm when you read it.
What about ugly men that sell things? Can we dispense with the lippy and just hand them all a paper bag?Last edited by babybird67; 07-10-2011, 03:56 PM.babybird
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Hello All,
I have radical views on dress codes. I don't believe in them.
But if they are to be introduced I believe that they should be negotiated through the Union, or if there is not a Union then with the workforce, where the need is explained, views are sought, and then agreement is reached.
I do not believe that an employer has the right to just introduce them.
On this issue of make up, surely the issue here is that this rule is seemingly only applied to women, not to men. In view of that then surelly this rule is disciminatory to women, and is Indirect Sex Discrimination.
Best wishes.
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Originally posted by babybird67 View PostIn my view, employers can have rules about what their employees wear and how they behave at work. These should be based on fair and rational principles and what does or does not prevent the employees doing their job. Thus, they can make a rule that employees should be clothed, for health and safety and decency reasons. That makes sense to me.
Once again, you are putting your OWN personal standards on what you consider to be fair. It is completely healthy and safe for someone to cell CDs butt naked. And as for "decent", there is no objective, logical criteria for what is "decent". That is a subjective, emotional standard. There is no "sense" involved. So what makes sense for you, is in fact, senseless.
Similarly asking people to wash (not use deoderant which I didn't mention but just to make that clear for you) makes sense again for health and safety in the workplace and because nobody likes sitting next to people who smell...it would have an effect on work.
Rules should always be about what is fair and rational.
If you follow your logic through to its conclusion you will have to support employers not employing people on the basis of race or gender if you truly believe if somebody pays you for doing a job they get the right to choose exactly who does it and how it is done.
He (generic) is imposing his arbitrary preferences not only on his workforce but on his customers, maybe half of which disagree with his choices.
Um, it's decency. Not wandering around naked in front of children etc.
Now you can argue society should all go naturist if you want.
There are distinctions and like I said I am surprised you can't seem to see them.
I still have the right to think the particular rules they have set are unfair. And that's where employment legislation comes in. To make sure the arbitrary choices of people who employ other people aren't unfair or unreasonable.
The difference seems to be they don't make arbitrary ones so much as employers do.
Let all Oz be agreed;
I need a better class of flying monkeys.
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Here's the funny thing: Employers DO decide what one can and cannot wear, and that does include make-up, hair color, and tattoos and piercings. They don't tell you you can't smoke and drink. They don't bother with your homelife (unless it somehow disparages the company). They don't (except in Korea) tell you where you have to bank, or what time to go to bed, or to stop already with the human sacrifice. Be thankful that I'm not the boss. I'd not allow smokers or heavy drinkers (by my definition). I would ensure that everyone was at a reasonable weight, and that they had (at my expense) access to some sort of fitness center and went there 4 times a week. Why would I do this? Because people are so stupid and unconcerned with their own health and appearance that they don't even go in for check-ups and balk at simple things like looking tidy. I would want my people (if they were good workers) to represent my company well and to stand out above others. If they don't like my rules, they can go elsewhere. In the case of physically challenged employees, I will help them to represent my company well.
Mikehuh?
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Originally posted by Ally View PostBeing naked is not unhealthy, nor is it unsafe. And who defines "decent"?
Once again, you are putting your OWN personal standards on what you consider to be fair. It is completely healthy and safe for someone to cell CDs butt naked. And as for "decent", there is no objective, logical criteria for what is "decent". That is a subjective, emotional standard. There is no "sense" involved. So what makes sense for you, is in fact, senseless.
Funny. Lots of people in the world don't wear deodorant and have no problem sittting next to other people not wearing deodorant. And it is deodorant, make no mistake that prevents people from smelling. It has nothing to do with washing. You can wash five times a day and still smell. It's not like deodorant is predominant in the majority of the world. It isn't. So once again, you are putting your own criteria on what "everyone" accepts. You are wrong. You are putting your own value system on what you believe is "right" for employers to require. In addition, again, as long as ones hands are washed, sanitary issues don't come in. So a person could have an entirely filthy body and as long as their hands are washed, basic sanitary needs are met. But of course you are employing your own ideas of what constitutes healthy and sanitary.
And as I have pointed out there is no fair or rational reason to require clothing. Clothes are not necessary. Neither is makeup.
No, there is a clear distinction. A black person can't turn white. A black person can however put on lip gloss. It is entirely logical to require your employees to dress according to standards that you deem appropriate. It is not logical to expect someone to change race. Changing clothes however can be accomplished by everyone. If it is something that is within the means of a person to control, then it is fair to expect that an employee control it. We are talking about personal choice. And the choices of the employer overrides the choice of the employee.
Everything is arbitrary when it comes to dress codes. Hem length, uniforms, color, every single thing involved in a dress code is arbitrary. Whether someone disagrees or not is irrelevant. All dress codes are arbitrary. So if you believe that a person can require their employees to wear a uniform or dress "neatly" then they can also arbitrarily decide that the uniform will include make up.
Once again, you are imposing your arbitrary conceptions of decency on the populace. That's as arbitrary as make up.
I can see them, you can't.
You are just hypocritical in what you believe is acceptable restrictions.
Wasn't there a poll done lately that said the reason British employers prefer to higher immigrants is because British folk consider themselves to uppity and too overcome with their rights to actually work? Apparently, British people believe they are so damn awesome they don't have to abide by anyone's rule, not even the bosses.
They bleat too much about what's unfair and unreasonable. You know what I think is unfair and unreasonable? People who think they have the right to money, but the person giving them the money has no rights whatsoever.
That is quite possibly the most hilarious thing you've ever said. The government doesn't make as many arbitrary decisions as employers? I don't even have the time to list all the arbitrary crap that governors impose on people.Last edited by babybird67; 07-10-2011, 04:34 PM.babybird
There is only one happiness in life—to love and be loved.
George Sand
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