Valentine's Day is just a bunch of bollocks!!!

[Sister Hyde]

Sorry to hear that JTR, well it makes 2 of us ahahah, my man is now in bed with a woman he was cheating on me with during my pregnancy and after putting me through the worst things in my life, abandonning me and the boy in the worst conditions (don't try to find out what conditions because it's beyond all the misery you could imagine).
try to cheer up, if she can't be happy with you, she won't be happy with someone else (or more likely she'll get the same feeling with someone else and the same will happen). my own consolation is to know that he's soon to be committed without ever being able to get out in what dutchmen call a FPK, and that soon he won't be able to tell his own name or where he is(hurray for injections of risperdal mixed with cisordinol and other benzodiazepine!!!)

[Hatchett]

Hi Sister Hyde,

That really must have been a bad time for you. I am pleased that you are now responding with self belief and self reliance. Sometimes in life it is perhaps an unwelcome but required experiance that you glimpse the abyss and have to crawl up out so that you can stand and see the first traces of Spring, scarred but triumphant.

Best wishes.

Hatchett.
x

[Sister Hyde]

I'm not sure mister Hatchett, i've been to hell and back, but somehow i think this might be the drop that makes the vase flow over. i don't think i'll ever trust a male human being again, any of them can also be an asperger/schizo affectiv freak who will just take advantage of my feelings and break me emotionally, physically, financially and socially. for me this has probably been worst than the 7 years i spent raised in a catholic dominican school for naughty girls (and after that i never ever thought anything could be worst), the only thing i'm happy about is that i'm still having the child (who the child protection services tried to snatch from me because of the father), and that no one can take away from me!!! that's maybe the first thing even the judges in the netherlands mentioned "a fierce mother fighting like a tigress".

[Hatchett]

Hi,

Hang in there Sister Hyde, we have all felt like that when we have been hurt. I know that you have been hurt worse than most. You must allow yourself to heal, both physically and mentally. Think of your own, and your child's, survival first as you are doing, the rest will come in time. There is always hope and there is time for you to meet someone who is really worthy of you. Next time you will be more cautious, but you will be stronger. Just take your time. Rest and allow yourself to get well.

Best wishes.

Hatchett.
x

[The Grave Maurice]

This thread was just about to break my heart. I was going to say that all men are rotten. But then, I thought about a couple of women who treated me (in my opinion) very badly. So I was going to say that all women are rotten. In the end, I thought I might say that everyone can be rotten from time to time.

I was also going to say that maybe Sister Hide should connect with Maria (if she's currently in Paris) and they could both go to a nice little restaurant in the 6th and talk about how rotten men are. But I see they've connected on another thread, so I've decided not to say anything.

[Sister Hyde]

Mister Grave Maurice, the sex of the person doesn't matter, a rotten apple, is a rotten apple, and when women start to get rotten, they are usually very vicious, it's like, you don't suspect a thing and they suddenly blow up at your face telling you all ther crap that has been going on in your back (ahahahah studying in english boarding schools as also teached me what being in a relationship with a girl can be like). But yeah if Maria is soon coming to Paris there are definitely nice restaurants around Luxembourg and Saint Michel.

Mister Hatchett, i might be stronger, but men don't like fierce and sour crazy cat ladies ahahahah. what i mostly aspire to feel is...numb. then you can't feel passion, but you also can't feel pain. the man i will give a chance to, i don't ask him for the moon, only to be true, passionate, stable, sweet, and to have a very corrosive sense of humor of course ahahah.

[Hatchett]

Take your time, Sister Hyde. The bitterness will go if the disillusionment doesnt. There are people out there who you will be able to trust. You will find them someday when you are ready, even if now you don't believe that they exist.

Take care.

Best wishes.

Hatchett.

[Sister Hyde]

well i do believe they exist, but i think they are much older than me as well, they are people who already have a whole life behind them, people who in general, don't really aspire to build a new life

[mariab]

I was also going to say that maybe Sister Hide should connect with Maria (if she's currently in Paris) and they could both go to a nice little restaurant in the 6th and talk about how rotten men are. But I see they've connected on another thread, so I've decided not to say anything.

I might be game, as long as the cannibalism part and the Ramirez part were a joke. ;-) And no, I'm not currently in Paris.
Not really my thing to claim that “all men are rotten“. Some men are as*holes and some women are b*tches, so it kinda evens out. Custody battles can get real ugly, and after they're settled one's stuck semi-frequenting someone one might not wish to ever see again for the rest of their life, for the kid's sake. (My two cents on the matter.)
And another thing: Time heals all wounds, physical or emotional.

[babybird67]

there are good and bad in both sexes...

I don't think it is helpful to generalise.

People have hurt me before, but I think the only person it truly hurts if anyone refuses to trust again is the person themselves.

Everyone is deserving of being treated as an individual and of having trust unless they prove themselves unworthy of it.

Life is a wondrous cycle of pleasure and pain, and broken hearts are all part of the great experience of life. We may think we will never recover, but we will, and we will experience love and joy again.

Love and peace to all.

[Sister Hyde]

why don't we pair all the bastards together with all the skanks? then we're sure to get it right ahahahah i'm always up for giving people their chance, but now i do it with a lot of reserve. Custody fights are aweful, the first one getting hurt in it is the child more likely (i a way i'm evry happy my ex suddenly denies the child and sayd "i hope the brat dies", this way i don't have to go through this and i know my son will not need therapy at the age of 12 because of him). Now maria don't worry, although i spend my days meditating and very gloomy subject, i haven't eaten or killed anyone yet, and i don't think i ever will. well i hope time hurries the hell up cause i won't spend my life numbing myself to avoid thinking.

[mariab]

why don't we pair all the bastards together with all the skanks? then we're sure to get it right ahahahah

Actually, that's precisely what went through my mind as I was typing my previous post.

Now maria don't worry, i haven't eaten or killed anyone yet, and i don't think i ever will.

Haven't killed anyone (yet) either and I hope to keep managing avoiding doing it. As for the cannibalism part, I'm pretty sure of not caring to try it, in the risk of coming off as a prude. ;-)

[Sister Hyde]

well for me i just don't see the use, people say it's like pork meat, and although i love dried sausages and hams and so on,i find pig meat very dry and disgusting as steaks and chops, so i wouldn't like it anyway.
what i think is strange is that when women are real b****s are usually worst than bad men. it's much more vicious and mean, when men just don't care and have conscience about, these women know what they do and they do it really out of...manipulation and vice.

[mariab]

The most exotic meat I've tried is crocodile, and it's very good. Tastes like chicken, but lighter. There's an Aussie Café here in Berlin that serves it sometimes. Once in Parma, Italy, I've also tried donkey salami, poor thing. I'll NEVER ever eat this again.
Well, culturally men and women have learned to act differently from each other, so one could claim that there's a tendency that “bad“ men tend to be violent, and “bad“ women tend to be great manipulators. But this is a social construction, anyway.
I love it that a Saint Valentine's thread turned out to be about the taste of human flesh.

[Zodiac]

Hmmm... Tastes like Human... err... I mean like Chicken!!!

The most exotic meat I've tried is crocodile, and it's very good. Tastes like chicken, but lighter. There's an Aussie Café here in Berlin that serves it sometimes. Once in Parma, Italy, I've also tried donkey salami, poor thing. I'll NEVER ever eat this again.
Well, culturally men and women have learned to act differently from each other, so one could claim that there's a tendency that “bad“ men tend to be violent, and “bad“ women tend to be great manipulators. But this is a social construction, anyway.
I love it that a Saint Valentine's thread turned out to be about the taste of human flesh.

Hi Maria,

I was brought up Church of England so, unlike the Church of Rome, we were stricty forbidden for holding extreme points of view on any matter whatsoever!!! In fact we were taught that there are actually only two real choices in this life. Namely... Cake... or Death!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rZVjKlBCvhg

Best wishes,
Zodiac.