Originally posted by London Fog
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While I am new to this site, I am not new to the JTR case. As for common courtesy, that's what I thought I'd find here. I've yet to see it. Here's a suggestion. Go read all my posts and all replies to them. You just might see who isn't being courteous.
Personally, I always read each thread entirely before posting any responses or queries, as it prevents others from having to repeat themselves unnecessarily and helps to insure continuity in the various discussions.
As to courtesy/discourtesy, yes others are guilty as well; however, being new means that one's initial postings will set the tone (if you will) as to how other posters will perceive and interact with the newcomer in future discussions.
Is it fair? No, but it is how people interact in discussion groups throughout the interwebs.
We are in a medium that nullifies all of the usual social prejudices of race, gender, religion, nationality, etc., and instead are judged solely on how we present ourselves in the written word.
Presentation equals perception, the better one presents, the better one is perceived and in turn, received.
It's a honey versus vinegar strategy that works towards attracting poster interaction, as well as flies.
(edited to add): These are merely suggestions, and not intended to dictate how others should post.
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