Originally posted by rjpalmer
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Children can only remember death if they are told about it. Would Caroline have known about Tony's death? It was in August 1991, while the Barretts were away on holiday, so it wasn't as if Mike was still combining the school run with courtesy visits to Tony when he unexpectedly had his fatal heart attack. Might her parents not have spared her that knowledge at the time? Come the new school year in September, would she know any different if dad dropped her off as before but went straight home until his afternoon pint, because Tony was no longer in need of his daily sherry or what have you? One of my daughter's school friends was not told about her own grandmother's death for some considerable time, because her parents were so worried about upsetting her that they put off telling her. I knew before she did! The same happened when the dog died. It was "with the vet" for weeks before they had the courage to break the bad news.
Love,
Caz
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