Moonbegger,
I was mulling this over at work this morning.
First of all, does it matter what he was called at work, anyway ? The fact is that we know that he was known as Lechmere everywhere else, and he clearly didn't tell the police this, or else they would have noted it (since they always noted aliases).
A point that convinces me that he was was known generally as Lechmere has to be that his children went to school as Lechmeres. I think that illegitimacy carried a stigma at the time, and it would have been (as Lechmere -the Rottweiler) pointed out, extremely embarrassing for those children to be known as Lechmere at school, if the man that their mother was living with was known as Cross.
I was trying to think of the psychological implications of naming your children for the outside world : on one hand the mother would surely want to give those children her husband's name, for her own honour. On the other hand, even if Crossmere was a tyrant at home and tortured his children, it would be because he felt that he 'owned' them, and so he would surely give them his usual name -to show that 'ownership'. What's more, if he was a dominating sort (and Jack surely was), he wouldn't want any suggestion that he wasn't 'potent' or he'd been cuckolded -he wouldn't want any confusion that those children weren't his. He sent those children to school, and out into adult life afterwards, as 'Lechmeres'. Therefore, we can pretty safely deduce that Lechmere was the name that he was widely known by.
I doubt that he had a great love for his step father. That is speculation -but you obviously like speculation, Moonbegger. I'm basing this on the fact that his real Father buggered off when he was young, quite a long way away, and had a another family (this is no crictism of the Father, since we don't know the circumstances, and he was present at his son's christening -off the top of my head). However, travel wasn't as easy without cars, no telephones existed, e-mails and skype didn't exist, and work laws didn't provide for the holidays that we have now -and so we can see that Lechmere Dad could only have had minimal contact with young Chas.
It would be understandable in the circumstances if Charles had seen his stepfather, Cross, as a father figure, and had taken his name, and had been bitter, hurt, and angry about being abandoned (effectively) by his real father, But obviously he wasn't, since we know that he used the name Lechmere above Cross. Surely that points more to a conflictual relationship with Cross ?
It is virtually impossible (given the lack of contact that he must have had with his real father) that he could have chosen to use the name 'Lechmere' (FACT), because Dad Lechmere did something 'right', but rather that Cross did something 'wrong' (for him).
Otherwise, the point about using 'Cross' because he might have been in 'work mode' has surely been well and truly nailed by both Fish & Lechmere in their respective posts.
I was mulling this over at work this morning.
First of all, does it matter what he was called at work, anyway ? The fact is that we know that he was known as Lechmere everywhere else, and he clearly didn't tell the police this, or else they would have noted it (since they always noted aliases).
A point that convinces me that he was was known generally as Lechmere has to be that his children went to school as Lechmeres. I think that illegitimacy carried a stigma at the time, and it would have been (as Lechmere -the Rottweiler) pointed out, extremely embarrassing for those children to be known as Lechmere at school, if the man that their mother was living with was known as Cross.
I was trying to think of the psychological implications of naming your children for the outside world : on one hand the mother would surely want to give those children her husband's name, for her own honour. On the other hand, even if Crossmere was a tyrant at home and tortured his children, it would be because he felt that he 'owned' them, and so he would surely give them his usual name -to show that 'ownership'. What's more, if he was a dominating sort (and Jack surely was), he wouldn't want any suggestion that he wasn't 'potent' or he'd been cuckolded -he wouldn't want any confusion that those children weren't his. He sent those children to school, and out into adult life afterwards, as 'Lechmeres'. Therefore, we can pretty safely deduce that Lechmere was the name that he was widely known by.
I doubt that he had a great love for his step father. That is speculation -but you obviously like speculation, Moonbegger. I'm basing this on the fact that his real Father buggered off when he was young, quite a long way away, and had a another family (this is no crictism of the Father, since we don't know the circumstances, and he was present at his son's christening -off the top of my head). However, travel wasn't as easy without cars, no telephones existed, e-mails and skype didn't exist, and work laws didn't provide for the holidays that we have now -and so we can see that Lechmere Dad could only have had minimal contact with young Chas.
It would be understandable in the circumstances if Charles had seen his stepfather, Cross, as a father figure, and had taken his name, and had been bitter, hurt, and angry about being abandoned (effectively) by his real father, But obviously he wasn't, since we know that he used the name Lechmere above Cross. Surely that points more to a conflictual relationship with Cross ?
It is virtually impossible (given the lack of contact that he must have had with his real father) that he could have chosen to use the name 'Lechmere' (FACT), because Dad Lechmere did something 'right', but rather that Cross did something 'wrong' (for him).
Otherwise, the point about using 'Cross' because he might have been in 'work mode' has surely been well and truly nailed by both Fish & Lechmere in their respective posts.
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