Actually, this wasn't about Ben. It was an opportunity to bring in the idea of attempting to support theories rather than shooting them down. As I said, that is much harder to do and requires creativity, or more creativity, in my mind. I think helping to remove obstacles is even more helpful than refutation sometimes, and if it can't be done, there's where an argument truly fails. I mean, of course, if it can't be done in a less than fantastical way.
There are times when the dissecting of a theory gets personal and stifles argument, and that is counter-productive to any discussion. Trying to assist on a hypothesis, but coming up completely flummoxed, shows an effort of support, I believe. You know, I'm a teacher and if I told kids their work is wrong and here's why, I would have shy students who can barely produce anything for fear of ridicule, as well-intentioned as I might be. When I approach their work (sometimes abominable, mind you) with the attitude of, "Okay, let's try wording it this way," or "What do you think about this approach?", it allows them to feel at least a modicum of usefulness. Should this site be about stroking egos? At times, yes. If the ego is out of control, there are plenty of posters ready to reel someone back.
Just my thoughts. Thanks for allowing me the opportunity to express them.
Cheers,
Mike
There are times when the dissecting of a theory gets personal and stifles argument, and that is counter-productive to any discussion. Trying to assist on a hypothesis, but coming up completely flummoxed, shows an effort of support, I believe. You know, I'm a teacher and if I told kids their work is wrong and here's why, I would have shy students who can barely produce anything for fear of ridicule, as well-intentioned as I might be. When I approach their work (sometimes abominable, mind you) with the attitude of, "Okay, let's try wording it this way," or "What do you think about this approach?", it allows them to feel at least a modicum of usefulness. Should this site be about stroking egos? At times, yes. If the ego is out of control, there are plenty of posters ready to reel someone back.
Just my thoughts. Thanks for allowing me the opportunity to express them.
Cheers,
Mike
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