Thanks Jeff/Caz
Your posts have helped crystalise some of the doubts I've been having over both the "gone abroad" phrase, and the alleged "like mother" suicide note...to me it really does begin to sound more like a family facesaver...
I think most middle class parents would have been concerned about (a) the family shame and (b) the damage to their son's prospects (possibly in that order) and would have been quite happily complicit in a quiet resolution...The Marquess of Queensbury, being of the nobility, securely landed and rich, (whose offspring would never have to actually do anything for a living), could afford to ignore both these factors...the lower orders couldn't...
All the best
Dave
Your posts have helped crystalise some of the doubts I've been having over both the "gone abroad" phrase, and the alleged "like mother" suicide note...to me it really does begin to sound more like a family facesaver...
I feel that had Valentine's school had such an incident the parents of the boy involved would not have been so willing to be reticent.
All the best
Dave
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