Originally posted by Ms Diddles
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The counterargument, as odious as it will sound to many here, and perhaps to you and Ally, is that by insisting on calling the women prostitutes, we are giving them the same name that the killer would have given them.
And this is one thing (I think) that concerns Harry and the Baron. Why would we want to do that?
If this argument sounds outrageous or phony, think about it.
It's all well and good to claim there are no moral distinctions being drawn, but like it or not, Harry and The Baron instinctively know that there is a type of male--and not an uncommon type--who does make 'moral distinctions' about prostitutes. I could go on a fifteen-minute rant here and even argue that there might be a biological reason for this--that evolution and the need to pass on one's genetic material inadvertently turned males into hypocrites--but I will avoid the temptation.
In short, the Peter Sutcliffes of the world are not killing flower girls; they are, in my opinion, killing women that are deemed 'unworthy' or 'immoral' by society, or at least by their fellow males. It is a type of 'toxic masculinity' to the inth degree, to use a fashionable phrase, and the worry is that by setting a class apart as 'prostitutes' we may be feeding this toxicity. Whether you agree with this or not is another question, but I think that is the impulse. You and Ally might tell The Barron to 'grow up' and shed himself of his whore-Madonna impulse, but isn't your beef with God and/or Darwin and not The Baron? He knows all too well how males can be; he doesn't like it, but he acknowledges it.
If it's just a matter of occupation, why doesn't anyone write that Jack the Ripper killed keychain hawkers, charring women, and bottlestopperers? Didn't the victims also have those occupations?
We designate them prostitutes because we believe, rightly or wrongly, that sexuality was an aspect of the crimes, and that their risky occupation is what led to their deaths. And since it is not good to die, there is the shadow of 'victim blaming' lurking up that dark alley, and this is what obsesses Rubenhold the most, and is what led to her taking it way too far by denying prostitution altogether. You perhaps think her impulse is misguided, but I can't in all honesty think that it is 100% wrong. Is it perhaps 5% right? 10%? As I wrote earlier, even one's enemy owns a percentage of the truth, though, of course, we seldom acknowledge it.
This is why these crimes obsessed the Victorians. They ticked a lot of boxes. They posed uncomfortable questions. They still do. There are ambiguities and people tend to 'politicize' murder for their own reasons. Currently, a gun doesn't go off in the USA without there being a political debate afterwards. Not necessarily a bad thing; society is trying to negotiate how we should react. In the meantime, we argue.
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